One thing I do when grief tries to capture my attention is write down all the blessings God has sent my way. This take a long time to do as He has blessed me so very much. It’s amazing how our attitude can change when we look in the right direction. We are told (Philippians 4:8 NIV) 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. If you’ve never tried doing this, Thanksgiving day is a good day to start. Make a list of these things and have a fantastic day of thanks.